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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thanks for comments.

International travel taking our child is definitely a source of stress. Working out a strategy with lawyer on how to address this.

Childcare is a better term. English is not my first language either.

Thanks to the person who gave feedback on an appropriate schedule for a toddler.[/quote]

I would be concerned that the sudden 50-50 request is a potential precursor to taking your child overseas and maybe not coming back. Maybe he's getting your child used to more time with dad before leaving together, or he's trying to get you to resist 50-50 so dad can say you're not willing to do what's in your toddler's best interest... And he takes the kid on a visit to his home country and just doesn't return. You know he already may be having some visa issues where he might be forced to leave the US. I'd wonder if he knows (but hasn't told you) that he might be required to leave the US, and  is setting things up to take your child.

I hate to sound so suspicious, OP. You know him and we don't so maybe you know that a parental kidnapping would just not be on his radar. I hope not. But I'd wonder about the sudden change in a man who was always so self-involved. [/quote]

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