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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It is possible, but you both have to come out of it with new commitments to openness and honesty. If any aspect of communication (verbal, nonverbal or physical-i.e. sex) is compromised in the future then it won’t work. It will be harder to maintain trust going forward. 
We rebooted our relationship after almost divorcing and I was happy as a lark, but DW started withholding info, keeping secrets and not participating physically within our marriage (seeks it elsewhere) and it has quickly fallen apart again.

I would still honor our vows and try yet again (I still love her like crazy) if she realized her mistakes and sought help but I don’t see that happening outside of a miracle.

[b]I gather that OP cheated, thinking the grass was greener? [/b]That’s how it reads.[/quote]

No, just a lot of communication failures and loss of connection between the two of us.  I'm crazy about my DH and want like hell for things to work, despite me being unhappy in our marriage, and with him, unfortunately.  When things are good, they're very good.  When they're bad, it's a nightmare and it's hard to reestablish connections between us.    [/quote]

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