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[quote=Anonymous]Another poster with mother issues here! OP all I can say is that the ultimate goal for you should be to accept your mom with all her warts and plan accordingly. Before reaching that more detached point (which might even involve severely limiting your time with her) you will be angry, let down, and grieve. It took me several years from the point I realized exactly why my mom made me feel so hurt and angry (she is selfish and unreliable even though I am a good daughter who has been there for her) to when I had finally worked through the negative feelings and can just take her as she is albeit with tight boundaries. [/quote]
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