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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I am sorry. I lost my mom when my 4 kids were all under the age of 5. She was the center of my world and it was so tough. Feeling sad about this and even angry is completely normal. I remember I had a check up with my OB 3 months after she died. My OB asked how my mom was since she was at all my deliveries and I burst out in tears and became snotty mess. I asked her if she thought I needed meds. She said nope, you are grieving and that is something you need to do. For me writing helped because you are right. I wanted to talk about her all the time. That was overwhelming not only for me but my DH. I would write notes. Short, long, just whatever came to mind.

This is going to take time. Give yourself that time. I promise it will get better. It took a long time for me to even think of her without crying. It has been 15 years now and I still cry about losing her. Not everyday, maybe not every month but I still feel short changed and can’t believe she is gone. [/quote]

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