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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There are only two women in my office (it’s a technical field), and my job is fairly travel-heavy, so I have had boozy lunches, dinners, or happy hours with one or more male colleagues. I don’t think drinking with coworkers of the opposite sex is necessarily an emotional affair.

I do think if the inclination to have an affair of any sort is already there, alcohol usually moves things along.

And trying to kiss a colleague is wrong, except in extremely limited circumstances (this is not one of them).[/quote]

+1.  I've had plenty of boozy lunch and dinners with colleagues.  Once, after just drinks (in my early 40s), a colleague tried to kiss me and I was shocked.  I almost slapped him but kind of felt sorry for him.  I knew his wife!

Anyway, I would forgive him and let it go, but not forget about it.  He didn't need to tell you so I would take that into consideration.  Keep moving your family life along, and that of your marriage.  Keep an eye on things but don't go all bat shit.  Your life is good and humans make mistakes.[/quote]

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