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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just be polite and don't expect anything.  Why doesn't your DH just hang out with his friend on his own?[/quote]

We don't usually do separate things because we have limited time to spend with each other. Plus I like his friend too. There is nothing terribly wrong about his wife, it just hurts when it feels like she rejects my friendship. I'm not looking for a BFF, but just having a better connection to her would make things easier.[/quote]
You sound needy. You and DH should start doing separate  things. Not every weekend but sometimes.
I have my own friends. I have no interest in a friendship with DH’s friend’s wives. Sure, when we invite them over I am nice and chat but I would NOT be building a friendship there.[/quote]

I'm not needy, we live separately so we literally see each other once a month. Since we also have to now travel to see these friends, we'll have to see both of them too.[/quote]
You don’t live with your spouse? That’s messed up. Work on fixing that first. Forget about friends, you have bigger issues. Maybe the wife is aghast that you see your spouse once a MONTH. Maybe she thinks your are putting money before the relationship and that makes you not her type.[/quote]

We're all military, so it's common. She is with her husband at the moment but will most likely be stationed away from him for 3 years. So I guess she could think that but she will be in the same situation too. None of us live close, so we have to travel to see each other.[/quote]

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