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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We dated for 2 years before getting engaged, and we lived together for about 6 of those months.

I think part of the problem is that we moved into a house but not everything is set up so we very much feel like we're on top of each other.

He does have some hobbies but since it's been cold out he's less inclined to do them.  Maybe things will get better in the spring. [/quote]

You need to tell him how you feel -- though please don't say "sometimes I hate being married." Like some PPs above, I kind of wondered how he could not know this about you before you got married, but now you're married, so communicate like spouses ought to, and tell him kindly how you feel.

It's cold and it sounds like his hobbies are outdoor-related - right? So talk to him. Tell him, hey, I feel like we're on top of each other here -- and you know I like some down time.

Then don't just talk, act. Make it a project for the two of you to blitz the setup of your stuff and get the house in order. Make it fun, put on music you both like, end with a nice meal out when certain tasks are accomplished, etc. Talk to him about each of you having more space. If the house has room, can there be a place that's yours and a place that's his?
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