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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Because he's mentally ill and still irrationally focused on you.

The good news is at leasr he's at the psychiatrist's office.  [/quote]

OP here. I figured, but I’m moreso just wondering - did he ask to borrow her phone? To call me? I realize I’m over analyzing but my first instinct was to be concerned. [/quote]

It's possible that he called from the psychiatrist's office, using her office phone, to wish you a happy birthday/Merry Christmas to demonstrate in therapy that he can be casually friendly with you. If he is fixated on you, that's probably coming up in therapy. It's likely that he's told his therapist a very different story about your relationship than you are telling. It sounds like he does not have boundaries or respect your boundaries, and given that, I'd be very surprised if the therapist is aware that you've asked him to stop contacting him and are ignoring him.

Do not respond. If he calls again, tell him firmly that you've asked him not to contact you, and then hang up. I don't care if he's crying or not.[/quote]

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