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[quote=Anonymous]I have an ex, who I dated for exactly a year. We broke up two years ago. He was having an affair (not sure if the term affair is accurate since we weren’t married). Long story short he had an ex gf/ f*ck buddy and lied and cheated out entire relationship. I also found out about him having bipolar disorder, depression, a neurological condition, and a couple other things - found out at the very end of our relationship. 
To add to this, I found out I was pregnant (birth control failed and I admit I/we should’ve been better about contraceptives) and I had an abortion. I had an abortion and one day later found all of this out. 
He didn’t want the baby but I was 29/30 and wanted a baby. I decided on an abortion since I didn’t want to raise a child with someone that didn’t want it. He also told me he would contemplate suicide if I didn’t have one. ALL of this (lying, cheating, discovery of issues, pregnancy) was found out in the course of one week. It was an awful point in my life.

But, two years later and I’m fine - more than okay with the abortion, in a loving relationship etc etc. After I broke up with him, we remained in contact for about 6 months. Mostly him calling to apologize and explain, texting sweet things to try and win me back. He’d write me letters. Eventually I stopped entertaining this since it was unhealthy and frankly, stupid of me. He didn’t take this well and I had to block his cell and Home phones. He showed up in the middle of the night to my apartment and I told him I’d call the police if he did it again.  Fast forward a year and a half and he called me from a random # a couple weeks ago. He was crying saying he’s not well, he has to have brain surgery, etc etc. my jaw dropped when I heard his voice and it was about a ten minute phone call (I didn’t have the  heart to hang up on a crying man). The call ended with me insisting I had to hang up, I can’t be his ‘person’, it’s not healthy, no I can’t be his friend, etc etc. 
He called the next day and I ignored it (same #, must’ve gotten a new cell). He emailed me (a new email address) and sent this long email begging for me to care about him and be his friend.

I ignored all of this. I got a voicemail on my birthday (about a week ago) again, from a random # (I now have three #’s and two email addresses blocked) saying happy birthday and merry Christmas and he hopes I’m well. Out of curiosity, I googled the phone number and it was to a psychiatrists office.

TL;DR —- how and why is my ex calling me from a psychiatrists/ therapists office???
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