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[quote=Anonymous]+1 on this sadly being common.

My grandfather had a child out of wedlock and I was probably 14 when that became common family knowledge. Our last name is her middle name, which is apparently what old school families do when that happens. All I know about her is that she grew up with me knowing what happened and who she was. And who I was. The deal was her mom got a check every month as a deal to keep it away from us. At 14, I found out I had an aunt born within months of me who grew up knowing so much of this nonsense. And I felt horrible. How do you do that to a child? There was one woman my family ran into who had our last name as a middle name, but she disappeared before the adult women in my family could decide if it was appropriate to ask her if ahe was one of us.

Maybe when my grandfather dies, I may be asked to help with the estate and find her information and tell her if she ever wants to have a relationship with me, get in touch.

My take away from this is that honesty is the best option now. So what if you got your AP pregnant. No one can hide these things anymore and the damage done to everyone is stupid.[/quote]

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