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[quote=Anonymous]I'm 31 he's 46. We have a young baby together and we live together, renting a place. I'm a breadwinner ( I make most of the money) His financial situation got really bad, to the point that he's telling me he's broke as a joke. His been telling me that for the past 6 months at least. We agreed to pay bills together, he skipped 2 months, and every month I have to ask him every day about the money he's responsible for. He barely ever buys groceries, almost never buys diapers. 
I tried to talk and offered help finding a stable job. He refused. He said I have to have some faith in him, that his situation is going to get better. I've heard that story for at least 6 months. It's not better. He didn't buy me a Christmas present, which is whatever. He didn't buy a baby first Christmas present. I made him go to the store and get him a teddy bear. He bought the cheapest one.
I'm getting very frustrated with the lack of sleep and having to work long hours. He spends lots of time at home, browsing utube videos. He does dishes, laundry and takes out the trash. That's awesome, but not enough to keep me happy.
I easily get irritated with him, I nitpick on him. He gets really mad at me. Today he was shouting at me so hard, the baby got scared of him. He is a very strong man, often times easily angered at minor things. To be honest, I'm so confused. I'm not sure if I'm supposed to keep on waiting till he starts making money and help me support our household. Or should I just end it right now before it got out of hand. He's not attracted to me anymore, we never get physical from his initiative. 
He doesn't help much with the baby, I have to repeatedly ask him for help.
Despite of all, he always finds money to buy beer, hang out with friends, and keep up with his hobby- fixing a car his been fixing for the past 8 years.
I'm really looking lost at this point. Feeling nauseous as I'm writing this.[/quote]

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