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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My sister has a lot of serious mental health issues, including alcoholism.  Six months ago she married someone over 30years older than her who also has alcohol issues.  It took me a while to accept their relationship, but I realize this was her decision and not for me to say who she marries.  However, she and her new husband keep pushing to spend time with my family.  I’m willing to see them on major holidays (whoever is hosting avoids serving alcohol), but now they are inviting us to their house for a visit.  I don’t feel at all comfortable going there with my kids.  They are already confused about my sister’s husband because he is so much older than her, but my real concern is drinking in front on my kids.  My husband and I have decided we will not go, but I need to figure out how to tell my sister in a way that is both kind and honest.  Directly addressing the alcohol issues with her just doesn’t work- she gets very defensive and angry.  Ideas on how I communicate this to her?

Do they near you? Can you meet them some place neutral? Or do it alone?

On the other hand if you really don't want to just say the next few months are busy and keep repeating that.

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