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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=ZachF]I remember sending out Christmas cards that included a family photo with her not in the picture. That worked. As for telling people, just start telling them, starting with the biggest known gossips. They will get the word out for you. [/quote] Yeah, the second part is how I did it. My mom’s side of the family are all big gossips so they took care of it for me. As far as friends and co workers, I told my closest friends and one of them is also a gossip and she told some people. I was fine with that; it saved me the trouble. We didn’t have any joint trips booked but if we had I would’ve paid our share so as not to unfairly punish the other people. It sucks to be out the money, but it’s the right thing to do. [/quote] Thanks. I agree with paying my share, it's more just how to handle it. And what if fxDH doesn't go? Would it be awkward if I went then? It's my side of the family, but they LOVE him, so I'm sure I will get tons of questions (and possibly criticism) that I don't want to have to deal with. [/quote] DP. I assume you wouldn't want to take the trip with your ex anyway, somhink about what's the best solution here for you. Not going at all (but still prepared to pay for your half)? Going with them on your own? Bringing a friend? Once you know how you would like to handle it, call them, tell them you and your ex have separated and you'd like to talk about how it will affect the trip.[/quote]
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