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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Stop send stuff to her house. Once the legal process is done they can build a relationship with their grand children.

Stop infringing on her life.[/quote]

What do you mean stop infringing on HER life? That comment is very telling about you, PP. You probably have done this. Just because a couple breaks up does not mean the grandkids are no longer allowed to be in relationship with extended relatives.

This is sad and parents that split need to love their kids enough not to disrespect their kids’ other parent. I get that things happen, such as abuse, infidelity, etc... If you alienate your kid from their other parent it will come back to bite the person doing the alienating.

For OP, have grandpa keep the stuff wrapped just like it is and give to the kids when you see them next, even if it is March or April. Good luck and get a good lawyer or mediator.[/quote]

See you agree with me but you are too dense to understand.

If the father really cares about the kids he will lighten up and wait his turn. For all you know there is a reason the courts refuse contact.

When he gets the courts to say they are not abusive psychos they can give them gifts.

Having been the cop in the scene of many domestics, yes you can wait your turn. You are divirced. Accept the consequences of your decisions.[/quote]

Sweetie, I am far from dense. You seem to be reading a lot into the stated situation. Not every dispute between exes is a domestic dispute needing law enforcement. I have friends dealing with stressful custody disputes. It is never about the kids, it is about resentment toward the ex. If you are a cop, I find your abrasive verbal response and name calling very concerning. There are lots of amazing people in law enforcement, you don’t seem to be one of them. [/quote]

PP is probably a criminal law studnt and by cases he/she means class assignments.
Anyway, OP have your mom  keep the gifts for the next time you see the kids. 
Document this as well as any other actions by your wife that attempt to alienate your relationship with them  Get a good lawyer and  good luck with your case![/quote]

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