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[quote=Anonymous]What did you say to the VP? I'd definitely call them back, or take advantage of a slow time (holidays) and the new year to tell them you're looking for ways to contribute more to the company in the new year and suggestions for other places you might want to move. You don't have to badmouth boss, especially since boss seems vindictive, but try to position it as VP is mentoring you and offering guidance. Meanwhile, polish the resume over the holidays and start putting it out there. And then think a lot about how this boss is manipulating you. IT sucks - I've been there. I wish I had developed ways to depersonalize it, make myself less anxious and less vulnerable. Figure out a way to convince yourself you are a highly valued, competent employee and not let the boss screw with your head. SO HARD, I know. But ultimately figure out how you can stay strong in the face of this. [/quote]
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