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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Guy here... although not very romantic, he's actually saying two things: he wants you, and is there permission to try to seduce you etc.  Else he runs the risk of  trying a move, and finding it in a very awkward way, you weren't interested, 
 You rather just curl up and watch Law & Order.  In which case, he can hang out with you for a while, and then hit the road.

Unfortunately, dear women-of-earth, if you do not communicate clearly your interest in sex or seduction, then the safest thing for us to do is ask.  Rather than ask DCUM, you should tell him how you like it.  Is it ravishing you from the moment you open the door? Or to light candles and quote Shakespeare?  Interestingly enough, whatever you tell us that helps us get closer to the cookie, that is what we will do.[/quote]

He could ask in a way that was slightly more romantic than "Are we going to have sex tonight?" I am not OP, but if my husband asked like that, I would feel pressured and annoyed. Even "Would you like to have sex tonight?" would be better.[/quote]

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