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[quote=Anonymous]So you have spent your whole life resenting her and now wonder why she doesn't let her guard down around you? She was just a kid too. With her own insecurities. And instead of being a champion, a safe place for her to share those things, you hated her for the ways she was different from you. Once this narrative is written in your mind, you will only see things that confirm it to you. That she gets it "easier" and she's "happier" and that "poor you" etc. Only you can change the narrative. But do it to find happiness within yourself. Your sister might not be interested in having a relationship beyond what you do now. The first step would be your ability to be genuinely happy for her. Not faking it, but actually happy to see her doing well. I'd explore this with a therapist. You have a lot to work on.[/quote]
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