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[quote=Anonymous]Op, my mother in law is married to someone (40 years now) who has views like those you expressed. She has told her children (some of whom were hit by their father, they tell me) that she would leave him if he didn’t get half of everything - he’s been unemployed since his contract ended 15 years ago. My DH and I maintain a relationship with his parents, but two of his three siblings have cut ties. My mother in law cries with me about her marriage whenever we see her (1-2 times a year) and I think she’s verbally abused, but I don’t know how to help her. I know this is tough love, but if you don’t respect his values or share them give some long and hard thought to whether to have kids with this man. Does he even want kids? Time for some sober conversations and possibly counseling to help you see (more) clearly your path forward. [/quote]
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