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[quote=Anonymous]You have ownership in this too. Sounds like academics have not been prioritized. Bad grades should mean no phones, no video games, no manicures, no new clothes, etc... The kids need to learn to earn their 'stuff' and free time. You need a chore chart/schedule and drop the hammer on them about their grades. Tell them what your expectations are and stick to the consequences. I am 1 and done, if my DD doesn't keep her room neat, her grades up and a clean appearance, she gets nothing and home confinement. Your relationship with your husband is a different issue. You need to tell him you are not happy, get on the same page about the kids and if he is not on board then you are out of there. Money comes and goes, you may lose some but you can continue to earn and recover. Good luck![/quote]
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