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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are doing them a favor by not helping them, really. They need to face reality.[/quote] thanks for that. despite everything, I still have the impulse to send them a check, which I KNOW would be wrong on so many levels. [/quote] Don't do it. It sounds like they have enough to maintain a roof over their head and buy groceries if they choose to live within their means. It's not your responsibility to keep them on an unsustainable lifestyle. They can downsize and they can look for income based senior housing. If they make all those changes and still need help if you are feeling generous you can help (but certainly aren't obligated to...and really I probably wouldn't). But no need to even worry about it until then. I mean they wouldn't even let you stay with them on summer breaks? That's so harsh. [/quote]
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