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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm dealing with this exact scenario right now. It's turning me into a paranoid crazy person. So exhausting [/quote]

OP here, why do you feel this way?  Any specifics or just a feeling.  In my case I can't honestly say either has acted in an overtly inappropriate way.  There is a legitimate reason for their interactions and I can see why they both get along, they have personalities that complement each other.  I just have this feeling and I thought it for a while now.  I thought maybe it would be a passing crush but I've been feeling it for a few months now which seems too long and my interactions with my friend are becoming more distant although I haven't changed how I am. [/quote]

The feeling is because what they have is intimacy and that should be reserved for you.

I wrote above too. To clarify it’s not bad for unmarried peoplecto communicate or to have friendships but once it crosses the line to intimacy it is trouble.
My DH’s friend started to contact him several times a day, even when we were on vacation together and that’s when I flipped a lid and I’m not sorry.

Emails or calls once every few weeks - great. Several times a day? No. Lunch every six months? Cool. Lunch every week ? No.[/quote]

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