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[quote=Anonymous]What, if anything did you do about it?  I'm beginning to suspect that my friend has feelings, other than friendship, for my spouse.  At times I have felt that our friendship may have been cultivated to allow this friend a reason to spend time with my spouse, other times I think that is a crazy idea.  Lately my spouse has not been available to socialize and this friend has been distant and generally not interested in interacting and seems more interested on spending time with us when spouse is around (this friend is married) rather than just the two of us.  Friend is always in a better mood when my spouse is around and seems more "engaged" in the conversation, friend has sent emails and texts directly to spouse (I think I have seen all of them, my spouse doesn't appear to be hiding this) they have had private conversations about things that weren't shared with me until some time later(I have to assume there are instances I don't know about and these are not chit chat conversations but serious talks that envoy Erik emotional and professional support). Maybe I'm making something out of noting but I certainly do not have a similar relationship with the spouses of my friends nor do any of my other friends have relationships like this with my spouse.  I'm not one to be paranoid but I suddenly can't shake this feeling.  The thing is, I really have enjoyed being friends with this person and would hate to loose the friendship.  Other than limiting their time together and otherwise not mentioning said spouse to friend I'm at a loss.    [/quote]

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