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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have a 17 month old, Work full time and so does my husband in a demanding job. Dad lives 4 hour drive away in a rural, run down area with nothing to do. I really do love my dad, and I haven’t seen him in months, and I said months ago we’d come visit before Christmas.

I’m just so tired and we have so many commitments right now (with in laws, work parties, etc). Trying to fit this visit in feels too hard.

Dad can’t come visit us because he’s having surgery soon and has a ton of medical appointments.

Making this visit happen will fall 100% on me. I’ve Already been struggling lately with exhaustion, anxiety, and some depression. It just doesn’t feel possible to do this right now.

I also hate my stepmom and her adult kids who all live near my dad. But she isn’t abusive or anything.

I love my dad, I truly do but i just don’t want to squeeze this in right now. Is it ok to just not go?[/quote]

Here is your permission.

In the future, OP, write your own permission slip. You are a grownup now.[/quote]

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