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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’ve been dating a man pretty seriously. He was very open about the fact that, twenty years ago when he was in his 20s, he was a pretty serious drug user (cocaine). Despite his previous indiscretions, has given me no reason whatsoever to think that he still uses, but it’s always in the back of my mind, and I find myself trying to “catch” him. Otherwise, we have a great relationship. But I need to get past this and move forward. [b]There have been a couple times he’s not been himself, and I’ve found myself showing up at his house, hoping to catch him.[/b] I never do, and he’s just been stressed from work. I’m paranoid. He’s been a great sport about it, but I have to stop.

Is this/will this always be sort of like an alcoholic, where you are just waiting for the other shoe to drop? Any advice? [/quote]

This is crazy behavior.  If you can't relax and trust him, this isn't the relationship for you.  And not because he's in the back cutting out lines, but because your behavior is beyond paranoid, it's disrespectful.[/quote]

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