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Reply to "Wife is about to leave me, don’t know what to do"
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[quote=Anonymous]The best thing to do is focus on you. Figure out why you picked up the cam girl habit. Yes, she cheated, but the healthy way of dealing with it- especially since she was remorseful- was to either repair the marriage or, if you were unable to get past the cheating, end things. Instead, you scammed the system- got the perks of keeping your wife around without the emotional entanglement, and got your rocks off elsewhere. You have unhealthy coping mechanisms and need to figure out *why* you do this and how to stop it. Ask yourself- is your motivation to get your wife back, or to better yourself and have a happy, fulfilling life no matter what happens? The former isn't enough- you will do the bare minimum then slip back into your old ways (and if it's not porn, it'll be something else). You need to do this *for you*. Spend a few months apart, go to individual therapy, fix yourself, and then try to fix your marriage. [/quote]
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