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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is an abusive spouse really that surprised when you file for divorce? My wife is "shocked and hurt" that I filed for divorce, that I could be so "vicious," yet for years I have put up with unending verbal, emotional and even physical abuse from her. She is now acting like a child who is being abandoned. I really think she lives in some fantasy world, as no one who knows us, including her own family, are surprised by the divorce. [/quote] Any chance she may be suffering from a personality disorder? Her world view may be so skewed, that she she sees her abuse towards you as normal reactions to imagined slights from you. The way you describe her as acting like a "child being abandoned" suggests to me this may be what is happening. Do you mind if I ask how her childhood was? Do you think she suffered any abuse or abandonment then? [/quote]
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