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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DH and I have been married for about the same length of time and we have two kids.  We're in counseling for the same sort of issue, minus the potential affair stuff.  To be honest, I don't really think counseling is working for us, but I think it's worth a shot.  I wouldn't feel right about divorce without at least putting in that effort.  I also think that it's helpful to be working with a counselor, particularly if you have kids, in order to work through the separation issues if it comes to that.  If you can afford it, I would also consider seeing a therapist on your own in order to sort through your feelings here.  I'm guessing that if you are like me (and most people in this boat) you feel pretty alone since you can't just go to your friends or family to talk about this stuff.  Talking to a therapist helps with that.  I would also consider getting a job before you divorce.  I work full-time, which I consider to be one less thing I'll  have to worry about.  You don't want to be job hunting during a major transition for yourself and the kids, so take care of that before hand.  Good luck.[/quote]

Are you going to divorce?  Do you feel he doesn't have respect for you?   Can you recommend your counselor?  (for therapy)?  That makes sense to me to do.  We did marriage counseling before, I suppose we could again, but hard to see it working when your heart isn't into it.  [/quote]

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