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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How did they breakup?[/quote]

I do know she broke up with him and shortly tried to reconcile, he said no, but then later told her he was struggling with the breakup and she said she was too. That was mid October ( I think that’s what I was told). I also know that he wanted to marry her/they talked about marriage.[/quote]

He got dumped by someone he wanted to marry, what, six weeks ago? He is absolutely still hung up on her. You don't move on that quickly, especially not when you're still following their every move on social media.[/quote]

Yea but he turned her away when she wanted to reconcile. If he likes his previous ex’s pictures and old flings, even the ones that weren’t interested in him, why would liking her pictures be any different? Wouldn’t she just be the same as the others?[/quote]

And then he went back to her again to tell her he was struggling with the break-up. You don't get over struggling with a break up in a few weeks while perusing all of your exes photos. You're a rebound, don't expect anything more than that.[/quote]

Not OP, but saying he’s struggling doesn’t mean he went back to her per se. He could be liking her pictures to be nice-show that there’s no hard feelings and to relieve his guilt.[/quote]

Not wanting her back and being over her are not the same thing. He can know he shouldn't get back together with her and still being emotionally tied up in her and not ready to emotionally connect with someone else. I mean, if OP wants to date this guy knowing he's probably comparing every aspect of her to his ex to find the way that OP is both better and lacking, she can do that. But it rarely ends well, and you spend a lot of time wondering if he's thinking about how much better she was in bed while you're having sex.[/quote]

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