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[quote=Anonymous]When my daughter was 15 I thought she was doing great, seemed like it.  Then a mom of one of her friends called and said she had read her kid's journal/diary and my daughter was mentioned in something her kid wrote about activities they had engaged in like drinking, sex, getting high, etc.  She asked if I wanted to read it.  I did.

Confronted my daughter, she admitted it and when I asked her why she had outright lied to me when I had asked her about such things (so we could have a "talk" about risky behaviors) she said she didn't want to disappoint me with the truth.

I grounded her for the entire year she was 15, which definitely helped.  She wasn't allowed to sleep over or have sleepovers, she had to come straight home from school, she had to hang out with her family in the evenings and on the weekends.  She did not like it.  But....later she told me that was what saved her from MUCH worse behavior that year.

At 16 it's a lot harder to hold them down, and I cannot say I was able to totally reign her in at 16 and 17, until she graduated high school.  But I think it went better than it would have had I not had my eyes opened the year she was 15.

She is now an adult and is doing fine.[/quote]

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