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[quote=Anonymous]I dated a guy for a few years who cheated on me on got another girl pregnant. Within a year after this particular breakup, I started dating my now-ex-husband. I stayed with him because he was safe, he was nice to me, and I didn’t think he would ever hurt me. (He really didn’t, but after many years together it was obvious we just were a total mismatch).

My advice is, if you think therapy will help, do it. I should’ve stayed single longer and learned to love myself and to be cool with being alone. After I got divorced from the guy I settled for, I did stay single and lived alone, didn’t date seriously for a year or so, and really, honestly learned to love myself and my life. I became really self sufficient.  I’d stay home and listen to whatever the F I wanted to. I learned new hobbies and how to fix things. It was awesome, and I feel like a better person and I’ve grown a lot.

So. Don’t rush into anything. Don’t settle. Love yourself. Love life without a romantic partner to lean on all the time. [/quote]

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