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[quote=Anonymous]I'd start individual counseling and consult with a lawyer. Abusers often try to flip it to others that they are the ones being abused. A good friend of mine went through something similar. She'd confided in a few of us that he was abusive but wasn't ready to leave; wanted to make it work for the kids, etc. I watched her daughter for a week once when she "went out of town for work" which was really her recovering at home from a black eye he gave her before he went out of town for work. The final straw was when he hit her in front of their kids (4 & 2). She kicked him out and called the police. He injured himself to make it look like she'd been abusive to him. Luckily the police could tell from his injuries that the marks were left by fingers much larger than hers. [/quote]
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