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Reply to "Help me with my totally messed up marriage, in which the abuser blames the abused"
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[quote=Anonymous]It's gaslighting. But another way to look at it is: even (even!) if his worst story about your behavior is all true, it does not follow that [i]his behavior is appropriate[/i]. That is, even if you are a terrible provoking shrew, [i]he still is being abusive[/i]. This is why this type of attempt to deflect is always BS. So I would worry less about the "he said, she said" nature of the narrative, and more on solutions to this relationship. Which may well involving getting out.[/quote]
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