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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's okay to be like that. But don't drag some unsuspecting guy into your drama.

Some people crave monogamy while others crave adventure. Know who you are and pursue life accordingly. Do not settle down; you'll be miserable, and you'll end up divorcing.

I know several men like you. They are serial daters. They like the chase and novelty. They married, had kids, cheated, and moved on. No more kids with the girlfriends/new wives...keeping their options open.

I know some women like you, and I feel sorry for their husbands. The women are the ones with the issues, yet they blame their husbands. Not fair. [/quote]

Do you feel sorry for the wives and kids of the serial dater men?[/quote]

Yes and no.

The one guy I'm thinking of in particular came from a broken home with a serial cheater dad who had tons of girlfriends and wives. He was cut from the same cloth, and cheated on his high school sweetheart regularly. Nonetheless, she married him and they had kids. Everyone knew he wasn't capable of monogamy. She couldn't turn a blind eye any longer when he came down with mono...yep, he was dating a college student.

But generally speaking, yes I do feel sorry for anyone impacted by cheating. Cheating is wrong. And it sounds like the OP isn't equipped for long term monogamy. There's nothing wrong with that unless she tricks a guy into marriage. [/quote]

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