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[quote=Anonymous]Absolutely do not spill the beans to friend 1 and don’t say it takes two to tango sort of comment.  I’ve had several friends divorce and I try to find ways to be supportive of friend without trashing the husband.  The main thing is they all have joint custody and have to co-parents with the ex-husband.  I’m sometimes trying to talk my friend off the ledge, not spin themselves up when ex is being ridiculous. I have to be cordial to their ex because we see them in the neighborhood and at various events plus if you invite their kids to a birthday party etc, you may have to deal with their ex if it’s their weekend.  If the ex has turned their back in the kids and has no involvement, that’s a different situation.  I still wouldn’t want to make my friend feel worse but my internal nickname may be that a-hole.  You can leave a marriage but shouldn’t leave your children.

So anyway, tell friend 1 you don’t feel comfortable hearing the comments because he is still Larlo’s father and your friend has to co-parent with him etc.[/quote]

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