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[quote=Anonymous]I have two friends / neighbors. We have all lived near each other for years and raised our kids together, who are now in his and college. They are both lovely -friend 1 is older and wise and has a very firm moral compass. Friend 2 is younger and breaking up with her husband of 20-plus years, over infidelity - her DH is having a long term affair and announced his intention to leave the marriage. It's a long marriage and so a long process.

Friend 2 confided in me that she also had a long term affair, several years ago. Her husband knows and it's all part of the messy divorce. BUT she has not told friend 1. So moral-compas friend 1 tends to harp on and on and on about how terrible friend 2's DH is, I mean on and on and on. I just want to say hey! They are both at fault! But I guess I can't say anything because friend 2 has not told friend 1 about her own indescretions.

I understand why- friend 1 is very moralistic and can be judg-y. But I see them both regularly and it's driving me nuts. I may just say something like "it takes two to tango" or something . Ugh. advice? What do you do in these situations?[/quote]

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