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[quote=Anonymous]This is so cliché but I need help. Our parents are both dead and my sister and are meeting in a week to clean out my moms house. We both live in different countries from each other and have spent many years not really very close. I would like to be closer to her, but she is not interested. She says I put pressure on her to have that relationship and accuses me of forcing her to change. So its always on her terms and I feel unsupported and alone and sad because I need more intimate relationship to feel like this person matters to me. She says by just being sisters I should know how much she cares about me, but we see each other at most 1 year and have hardly any contact otherwise. Is it weird for me to expect my sister to care about my feelings? Should not she at least care that I need support from her? She has no real friends and a distant relationship to her husband so this is a trend and I know its not just me. But am I the crazy unreasonable one? I have stopped trying so hard with her, but I still get very sad about it hence why this upcoming trip is freaking me out. [/quote]

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