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[quote=Anonymous]DH is notoriously tight with money, except he’s happy to spend on things that are important to him. For instance, I’d really like to spruce up our house and one of the things I think would help is if we switched out the builder grade light fixtures. That’s not important to him, so he says that he doesn’t want to spend the money on it. Meanwhile, he has no issue with buying new golf clubs for himself or buying lunch and coffee everyday. I’ve explained to him that I don’t think the double standard of spending is equitable. FWIW we both work full time but he WAH most days so he would be the one to be home for the electrician which he doesn’t want to do. Yes, I could save “my” money and fund the whole project myself but he spends “our” money on what he wants so why should I have to do that?[/quote]
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