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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Did you have the big fancy wedding where lots of money spent, big production, tons of guests and gifts, trains of bridesmaids and best men, etc. etc.?

You are suffering from the big let down of "THIS is it??" after a huge event. You are not the center of attention anymore. You are on your own and that is not fun for you.

Ride out of it. Be stronger. You are not that special and that is fine. [/quote]

NP.

OP, please come back and tell us if this was, as PP says, a big fancy wedding. Those can really produce a let-down afterward, a kind of after-the-party return to real life and its mundane stuff. The friends and family are gone, the events are over. The glow of the spouse at the altar is gone, and you're back to the mortgage or the rent, returning to work, etc. After any big life event, the return to reality can be a bump. If you had a wedding with a lot of people there and a lot going on over a period of time (showers, going out with bridesmaids/groomsmen who are in town, catching up with friends/family who are so thrilled for you, wedding itself, reception, etc.)--the bump feels harder. What was the wedding like, and is it possible you're dealing with the reality bump, and not really questioning the marriage itself? [/quote]

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