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[quote=Anonymous]Honestly, I think it is perfectly OKAY to express hurt and frustration to them. At least once - honestly and without recrimination. But it is your husband's job to do it. And if he can't man up about it, well, I confess my solution would be to be passive aggressive and snotty and that's not helpful. More likely to be helpful would be something like: "Fran dear, I am sorry we didn't visit more last month but we would love to see more of you if you can come to us. Heck, we could really use some help around here if you're up for some babysitting."[/quote]
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