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[quote=Anonymous] That would be very unkind of you, OP. If your BIL is out of a job, don't pile on by creating a situation where both he and his son will feel uncomfortable. I have a BIL I dearly love whose adult son (not even 13) is very spoiled, and when they came to visit, I said not a word about their sleeping arrangements, who paid for what between them, who chose the museums to visit, restaurants, etc. In my case, this nephew has mental health issues, dropped our of college and has slowly been turning it around with the financial assistance of his father. Everyone knows not to rock the boat. Usually when parents behave in non-traditional ways towards their child, it's because of similar issues, that you why not even be aware of (because BIL may not even have a diagnosis to tell you!). So let well enough alone. [/quote]
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