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[quote=Anonymous]I'm in my mid 30s. I seem fairly capable of attracting men, but nothing is turning into a long term relationship.

I would like to get married. I've read just about every dating, marriage and Rship book out there. I've tried all the different approaches ever mentioned. Playing it cool. Not playing it cool. Being super picky. Not being picky and dating everyone who asks. Have sex. Don't have sex. Wait on sex. Don't wait on sex. Be coy. Be outspoken. Be strong and independent. Be needy. Be sexy. Be prude. Go to church. Go to Home Depot. Hang out in bars. Go out single. Go to sports bars. Act married. Don't act married. Mention marriage early. Don't mention it at all. Mention it after a year. Let him bring it up. Enjoy single hood. Pretend you're already married, visualize. Lol I've tried it all.

I have tried any and every way to enter a long term relationship. I would like to think it's the guys where I live (the South), but maybe it's just me. I'm not desperate, I'm not picky, I don't have a laundry list of requirements. I'm told I'm very attractive. I'm fit and educated, stable career. I'm not seeking something I don't already have myself. I would like to meet a man who is kind, has a stable career, we get along, and he also wants marriage. That last one seems to be the toughest to find. I've met plenty of guys who just want a good time, for as long as it will last. I tried being content with that, and having no pressure, but it doesn't turn out well for me. I end up really liking the guy and wanting more, but he doesn't, so my heart gets broken. Over and over again. I want to stop that cycle.

What are some tips you all can give me? I would like to hear from men and women. Anyone ever stuck in a rut like me, then had an aha moment? Please share what you did to get out of that rut. Do I need to change how I think?

Ladies, tell me what you did to get your man! The more details, the better.[/quote]

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