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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think that wages should only be garnished if the parent required to pay child support has shown an inability/unwillingness to pay on time/at all.

Not all dads are deadbeats...whether they are with their child(ren)'s mother or not. If mothers are going to be given the benefit of the doubt when it comes to caring for the kids (until they prove otherwise) why does this not extend to dads?[/quote]

My husband has paid both ways - mailing a check monthly and garnishment.  We preferred garnishment so she couldn't demand we send the money early or give us a hard time about it.  As long as it was taken out of my husband's paycheck, it wasn't our problem.  The big issue for her was the garnishment way was always a week or two late and there were all kinds of other issues.  She would call us to take care of it and we'd refer her back to the child support office as she set up the garnishment without us knowing (and took a double payment one month because she didn't tell us nor did they).  It can be done as long as there is a court order.  She was much better off with direct pay due to it coming late but we loved the garnishment as it took away one thing she could harass us about.

I think they should have accountability of how the child support is used for months over $800 per child.[/quote]

Seriously?  $800 doesn't even pay for 1/2 my child's share of a roof over her head.  You are lame if you think a custodial parent is somehow chiseling you because you have to pay over $800 a month.  [/quote]

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