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[quote=jjconcern]Wow, I read through the replies that you received after sending out your post and you've received some great ideas. The only thing I might add is that she may be a late bloomer, i.e. she may become more coordinated and capable with time due to catching up in her development as she is only six. I am assuming she is in first grade. As a former school psychologist and therapist, I would agree with a psycho-educational evaluation in case there are any learning problems that need remediation. She might also benefit from being held back a year but not at the same school. Are you able to place her at a good Montessori charter school where there is more emphasis on social and sensory motor skills than academics at an early age as often seen in public schools. For sure I would be in close communication with her teacher to keep on eye on bullying within the group of girls that she is choosing to be with. In any event the suggestions that she develop competency in an area of interest apart from school will help her gain confidence. Also to have her take an active role at home in being responsible for some of the daily routines of your home such as helping plan meals and preparation, setting table, etc. anything that will make her feel more grown up and competent. It is so easy as a parent to want to protect a child who seems less capable but she will gain more self confidence by your teaching her and expecting her to be capable in your home environment. Of course, always with patience and encouragement from you. The more capable she feels at home the more capable she will feel in the world. My best to you and your daughter.[/quote]
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