Reply to Dating 38 year old guy, found out he's in the process of surrogacy

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Dating 38 year old guy, found out he's in the process of surrogacy"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]

I'm not sure what to think.  What would bring a 38 year old never married, never had kids man to surrogacy on his own.  What are the odds of this going through as a single male parent.[/quote]

The same things that lead a 38 year old never married, never had kids female to look into sperm banks. A desire to become a parent.

[b]That part isn't a red flag for me. The finances/address issue is.[/b][/quote]

This.  He can't pay for it?? How in the world did he get started then?  There needs to be some sort of contract, I would think. Can he afford a nanny while he works those long hours?  I'd guess not.  Who on earth would agree to this surrogacy?

I really hope this is a troll post.[/quote]This is not a troll post.  He is a teacher, he has summer/holidays off, however he coaches 3 sports, so most of the school year his day starts at 7am and doesn't end until 8pm or later. He makes a fair amount of money, but doesn't have $50k set aside to pay for surrogacy.  I don't believe he can pay for a private nanny during the school year and not sure if a nanny would take a job that is only 10 months. I just don't know what to think. I'm not a materialistic person, so I don't care of about money and things. I take care of my kids and myself fine.  He is a very nice guy. Neat, clean, great cook, seriously, "the perfect catch" from all that I know so far.[/quote]

He's most definitely NOT the perfect catch.  Run OP.  Don't get caught up in this mess.
[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics