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[quote=Anonymous]There is a LOT going on here. #1. Totally normal that you're feeling like you handle everything. Look up emotional labor. You need to address this separate from the space heater issue. #2. You asked him to fix it, he came up with a suggestion, you shot it down. It's very frustrating to be asked to handle something, and then be told you're doing it wrong. I'm not saying a space heater is a good solution, but something to keep in mind about how HE may be feeling. He might be feeling like he tries, you don't like his solutions, so why even bother? Leading back to #1, and it's a circular dynamic. #3. Can you put a regular box fan in the hallway, blowing warm air into the bedroom? [/quote]
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