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[quote=Anonymous]Hi ladies. I'm looking for a little perspective. My husband has been waking up at 5:30am in the morning to run with another (cute blond) woman for the last few months. Sometimes they have a third guy buddy that joins them but it seems like only 20% of the time.

She is a woman he has worked with for a few years together on some freelance projects a few times a month. She knows me, I know her. Not well, but we're friendly. FYI, I'm also fit/trim but running is not my thing especially at their distances (5 - 12 miles regularly).

He's lost about 15 - 20 pounds with all this running, which I think is awesome and he is feeling great and looking great. He is a committed father and really loving husband and I don't think there is any reason to think that anything has happened between him and this woman, yet. However, it seems a bit extreme that he gets up this early 5-6 days, every week to run with her. She's been married four years, no kids. Probably won't have any. I think she's in her late thirties. My husband is in his late forties.

I've talked to him about my insecurities and he's more than loving and reassuring that there is nothing going on. He has said in conversation that he thought she was pretty. She texts him regularly about their running and then there is the occasional, “Happy Birthday, gorgeous!” or “Great run, great weather, great company”. It's hard not to see this stuff when he leaves his phone laying around the kitchen and yes, I pay extra attention when I see her name pop up.

Even though we've had numerous discussions about her and the running, it's still unsettling. Is this setting a stage for an affair? Or am I being paranoid?

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