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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Person A would argue that it is not fair for Person A to have to do everything themselves because Person B can not do it well enough and Person B needs to get better. Person B’s defense would be that they do things adequately and Person A sets crazy standards.[/quote] I have a good friend who is much like person A. Her mom and sister have diagnosed OCD disorders, and she grew up in a compulsively clean and tidy home. At some point she did recognize that her standards were becoming destructive in her marriage and in other relationships, and she has worked really hard to let go of some things, and not voice all of her feelings. And her husband has also worked to create a generally clean and organized house. If person a and b can both have self-awareness and work toward compromise (maybe with a therapist or other expert, they can get to a better place).[/quote]
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