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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am new to this forum and not sure where to post. I just turned 33 and contemplating having my first child now, or waiting until I'm 35. Im a nurse, and will be going back in a year for my CRNA. The program is a two year intensive program, and I will be working part-time, too. My DH really wants to try for a baby now, but I am not sure about having a newborn, work, and school at the same time. It's seems very overwhelming to me. My hope was to wait until I am 35 and out of school. I can coordinate getting pregnant and then delivering after graduation, that way I wouldn't need to take maternity leave a few months into a new job. We want 2, maybe 3, close in age. If I can have it work, I would love to have them at 35 and 37, and maybe 38 if we have a third. We met when I was 30 ( he was 32), married at 32 and 34, and I wish we can have more time as a married couple before having children. He's anxious to get started. What would you do? [b]Am I being unrealistic with my expectations?[/b] [/quote] Yes. To matter of factly say "I want to have a kid at 35, 37 and 38" shows that you have unrealistic expectations about how this process goes. Also, did you make a post about "breastfeeding nursing moms"?[/quote]
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