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[quote=Anonymous]Hi,

I need some input as I have never had to deal with something like this before.

My 3 year old started a new school in September and it has been a very rough start.  Specifically, he cried the first two weeks (which I hear is somewhat normal for some kids), two weeks ago he came home with a bite mark on his arm and yesterday I picked him up with an abrasion on his nose (about 1/2 inch and dry blood inside of his nose).  While he said another boy hit him with a stick I am not sure I can fully go by what he says.

In both situations nobody notified me of these incidents, there was no incident report and they say that they didn't see how it happened.  I completely understand that he is a boy and these things happen, but what is very frustrating to me that the school either not telling me everything or they do not watch him well enough to tell me how these things occurred.  In case of bite mark, the  teacher was actually trying to tell me he might have done it himself, she said that she saw him sucking on his arm.  This is absolutely incredible, as (1) I can tell that is other child's teeth, (2) he should have completely twisted his arm to do it to himself and why would he?

This is considered to be a good school but I just simply do not know where to go with this.  Once again if they notified me of these occurrences as well as told me what was done to comfort my child, I would have felt better.  But I almost feel they act as is they are not responsible for anything!

Has anyone been in this type of situation? What would you do?

Many thanks for your help!

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