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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. To respond to some PPs - part of why this is coming up is because he says he's never before felt the way he feels with me. He's told me he wants to marry me and have a child with me. We're making plans for the future (out of town trip for NYE, for example) and he's talked about introducing me to his family. This is why I'm having a hard time knowing what to do. [/quote]

It’s really up to you.  I don’t think a few months is that long. For me, that’s long enough to know I don’t want to date other people right then and want to focus.  Its enough time to tell if there is chemistry. It’s not enough time to know if his talk of the future will equal action.  It’s not enough time for me to know if we are truly compatible.

So personally, I would give it more time, but re-evaluate in six months.  That’s no different to me than if I met a guy that was also divorced or was ambivalent about dating a woman with kids ...at some point you both have to decide on that person specifically and how well you match.  You are learning more the longer you are in the relationship and at any point you can decide he isn’t for me or vice versa.  At some point if he sees this as “taking on baggage”and not as enhancing his life or that part of your life making who you are to be a match with him ...well then you know what to do. [/quote]

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